Normal Health Standards
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager
Blood Pressure
120/80 or less
Cholesterol
HDL (good)
50 or more – women
40 or more – men
Alcohol Use in the Elderly
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager
Alcohol causes more problems as people age
Alcohol use in the persons 65 and over is notable for several reasons. First, the older person has a diminished capacity to handle alcohol and what he/she was able to handle when they were younger no longer applies. Secondly, because older people often have multiple medical conditions for which they are being treated, it can be dangerous to mix alcohol and medications. For instance, aspirin use with alcohol can cause excessive bleeding; acetaminophen and alcohol can cause risk of liver damage. Allergy medication and alcohol can cause sleepiness, making it risky for older people to drive. Thirdly, as people age, they are subject to losses, changes in life arrangements, medical conditions and surgeries which create stress. Alcohol and depression are relational, meaning that alcohol can contribute to a person’s inability to handle the situation and deepen the depression. Continue reading
What is an Advance Directive?
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager
Advance Directives direct medical treatment when you are impaired
An Advance Directive or Living Will is a legal document in which you tell medical professionals what treatments you want or do not want given to you in the event that you are incapacitated and need treatment. This document should be filled out by anyone over 18 years of age. It takes effect if you are in a near death experience where withholding treatment could cause your death. If there is an accident, parents cannot advocate for a child over 18 years and a wife or husband cannot advocate for their spouse without it. An attorney can fill it out for you and on National Health Care Decisions Day each year, many attorneys volunteer their time to help you fill one out. Continue reading
Guardianship
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager
Guardianship provides for an elder who can no longer take care of themself
Guardianship is a legal term used to denote a person who is taking care of the personal concerns of an individual in the event that they become incapacitated. A guardian may be appointed by the individual while they have capacity in the form of a legal document often called a Healthcare Proxy or Healthcare Power of Attorney. Secondly, the individual may give an institution, such as a bank trust department or an attorney, the authority to handle personal and financial matters upon their incapacity. Thirdly, if no one has been appointed, the court will appoint a guardian. Each state has different rules about how guardianship is handled. Guardians are required to account for every penny spent on behalf of the individual to the courts annually. Continue reading
My Firsthand Experience with Alzheimer’s
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager
When a Loved One Has Alzheimer’s
My mother had Alzheimer’s. It began with little strokes called TIAs where she would have numbness and tingling down one side of her body. She didn’t realize what they were. She was in the generation where women were not assertive so she did not tell the doctor’s assistant why she was trying to get in to see him. By then it was too late and she continued to have these TIAs.
Often dementia follows after a vascular event. If Alzheimer’s symptoms were present when the vascular event occurs, it weakens the body enough to trigger the dementia.
When her neighbor across the street from her died and her best friend across the block had passed, she no longer had people close to check on her. She was furious when we insisted that she move into an assisted living center. For one month, my brother and I were persona non gratis. Then she went back to the home she had lived in for over 42 years and realized she was glad that she no longer had the responsibility.
After her strokes, she continued to drive. She lived out in the country. She had a blind spot on her right and so she would only go on trips where she could turn left. We were terrified that she would hit a jogger or child riding a bike but she didn’t. During the last year, she did have three accidents. She was beginning to get lost on previously familiar routes. When she moved into the assisted living center, they provided transportation and so there was no need for her to drive. The car sat in the parking lot for a year before my brother bought it.
Difficult Behaviors
Mom became overtly sexual in a way that she never had before. She talked about it openly and it was out of character for her. She also began to drink wine. She would have ‘only a little bit’ but 15 minutes later, she didn’t remember that she had already had a little bit and she would have more. It masked some of her pain, I believe. This happened at a time when she was on oxygen all the time. We found wine bottles hidden throughout her apartment. She would just go to the grocery store and buy more. Her psychologist recommended giving her a little drink every night before bed. That way she could still have some.
Many times she would be frustrated and angry and say “Parts of my life are missing!” In the beginning she knew that she was losing her memory. She was depressed and felt like her control over her life was slipping away from her.
Later, she became more complacent. She couldn’t remember anything to make her agitated so she focused on what she appreciated about her family.
We found that anything hidden behind the door in the refrigerator or in the cupboards or drawers were as good as gone. She did not remember them. Eventually, we had to remove the coffeepot and have the oven unplugged because she couldn’t remember to turn it off and we were afraid she would start a fire. In the end she could not even change channels on the TV so she watched the same channel all day.
She couldn’t remember that we had come to visit her even if we had been there the night before. Finally, we placed a calendar by her bed with instructions that anyone who visited had to write their name in on the day so she would know that they had been there.
I had come for a 3 day visit in-between jobs and stayed with her. During that time I noticed that she was always scratching her face. It was dry so I purchased some moisturizer. Her nose was bleeding from the constant oxygen. The nurse suggested vasoline placed on her nose membranes to act as a barrier. Her toe had a fungus that had not been noticed by the nurses. I tried to soak her feet in vinegar which is good for removing fungus.
Saying ‘Goodbye’
During my visit I noticed that she was getting more and more tired. At lunch she was practically falling asleep in her plate. I walked her down to her room and she laid peacefully on the sofa. The intake nurse came in to take her vitals as she was being placed in a higher care facility. The nurse said, “Your mother’s blood pressure is only 80/40.”
“What does that mean?” I asked. She replied that protocol was that you sent them to the emergency room so I called 911. An ambulance wisked her off to the hospital. She had pneumonia but had shown no outward symptoms. I remember saying to her, “Mom, I just need to know that you are going to get better.” The truth was, it was only going to get worse.
Once she was treated, she moved to the long term care facility. Within a week, she had a massive stroke and was in a coma for 2 weeks. All of my brothers and sisters were there day after day and she even began to rally a little. The one day that we took a breather and didn’t show up to the hospital was the day she died.
Knowing what I do now, if the intake nurse had given me alternatives, I might have called my brothers and sisters and said, “Mom is getting ready to pass. Come say your goodbyes” However, nurses are trained in the medical model which is to cure. When one reaches a certain age though, there is not going to be a cure and it is important to let go and give them permission to go.
What Happens During Aging?
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager
Advancing age signals changes on many levels
If you ask a younger person what happens during aging, they have no idea. They may describe graying of hair or wrinkling of skin. Aging isa very personal experience. Not everyone ages the same and not every organ in the body will age the same. Some people may look young and live life with gusto. Others may look old by the time they reach 50 years of age. Sixty is usually the age at which a person is described as mature or aged. The largest demographic of our population is the 85+ segment. In the past, most people did not live much after 50. Today people are living into their hundreds. It is changing the way we will live our lives. Continue reading
Understanding Grieving
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager
Grieving is individual but there are some commonalities
Recently, I attended a Grief seminar and learned many strategies for helping someone who is grieving. Older adults fit this category as they are often losing spouses, friends, careers, social status (when they retire), financial status and the list goes on. Seventy-five (75%) percent of all deaths occur in persons 65 or older. Many of my clients would lose a spouse or have a health incident that they could not get past. They would become stuck and could not live their life in the present. They stayed in the past.
Grief is experienced differently over the life span. Research has shown that the early parent-child attachment bond is crucial to determining how easily a bereaved person moves through the disorganization phase of the grief and into the reorganization phase of the grief process. It is important for the bereaved person to experience the pain and process it as well as to establish the meaning of the relationship with the deceased. Sometimes, they must be nudged to increase functioning in the present and to develop hope for the future. Continue reading
By: Diane Keefe, Geriatric Care Manager



